[There's a lot of self-loathing in there, and he gets why - but at the same time...]

...You were - I'm assuming - both adults, and both consenting. If it hasn't destroyed your relationship with this person, and you both are more comfortable in being friends, then I would say it's better to not shrug it off, but acknowledge it happened, and then move on.

[He's quiet for a moment.]

...Is that why you asked me about if Whore is different now as opposed to my day?