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[hatesdeerstalkers]

James Moriarty
UN: 128nemesis

STATUS: Mathematics Professor ACCOLADES: PhD In Mathematics, Bachelors in Astronomy, Criminal Mastermind

BIO: Tutoring is available, though I do ask that you set it up with me to make sure that there will be no schedule conflicts for the both of us.

© TESSISAMESS

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[hatesdeerstalkers]

[As always, he notices the breathing changes - but it's so close to meditative breathing that he thinks it's that instead.

It's - a little frustrating, seeing her constantly shut him out, and shut down any avenue that isn't the safe lie of 'I'm just someone who isn't worth the trouble, and I never will be.'

But, at the same time, he still understands why. The loss of the mask means bearing your easily injured self to the world.]

...Do you really believe you're stuck in the same cycle? Even when you're showing signs of beginning to break it?

[He sighs.]

Jolyne, it takes time. It takes time to relearn good behavior and to abandon maladaptive ones. It is indeed bullshit that to those that are supposed to help you, you 'dig your heels in the ground and refuse to change' in their minds, when the issue is that you work at it slowly but surely.

[He stands for a moment, grabbing a pencil and a piece of paper, before sitting down.]

Let me explain in a way that I think might make sense for both of us.

[he writes down an equation - 2+2 =?]

Now then - you can most likely solve this, yes? It's simple.

[Then, he writes down 2x2=?]

This is harder than the first, but still simple. It requires you to understand something other than addition and subtraction, but it's still easily worked out.

[ 2x2-3+5%3=?]

You can even mix both systems, but this is still more difficult than the other two - and someone who only knows addition and subtraction would have trouble.

[Then, he writes down more without stopping - from fractions to algebra, increasing in difficulty until the last one is a hulking, difficult looking mass of an equation.]

Now, I assume you would have difficulty with the last one. You may not even be able to solve it, even if I gave you all of the time in the world, simply because you don't know the individual steps on how to tackle it.

[He points to the third equation with his pencil.]

As you are now, you are right here. You are learning the systems, and trying to better yourself. But -

[He points at the final equation.]

-You're trying to jump to this difficulty, and are frustrated and scared that you can't solve it yet. But...you can.

[He puts the paper down, looking at her with a gentle smile.]

All you need to do is allow yourself to learn all the other steps between you and what you want to be.

[strings_theory]

[For once she's quiet as she lets him speak, as he goes about the math problems. It's a weird way to equate things at first, to her mind, but the explanation is where it starts to make actual sense.

Steps and levels, increasing and changing depending on the stepping stones towards them. She kind of gets it, even if she's still frustrated at the fact that everything goes so slowly for her. It shouldn't be this slow, right? If she were like anyone else, it wouldn't be.

But she can't really think like that, can she? She's not someone else, after all. And different circumstances between them...

Her focus remains on the paper for now, a small frown on her lips.]

I'm not a patient person, I never have been. I don't sit still well and I don't tend to keep my attention on things for very long. Act before I think.

That... might be why it's so goddamned frustrating, that I can't just push through all of this. If it takes too long then what's the point of it?

[There's a soft bit of a laugh, though the sound is mostly bitter.]

Fuck, that makes more sense than it really ought to. Every goddamned thing I try to fucking rush...

[hatesdeerstalkers]

Patience is one of the hardest things to learn, you know.

[He says it with a lopsided smile, as if to say 'I was like you, once.']

However, taking a long time doesn't mean it's worthless. Trees grow over decades, even centuries, and they're incredibly valuable.

...And you have the time to slow down, to focus on what needs to be focused on. To learn these steps, and heal from old wounds that you've never allowed to fully close.

Rushing has it's place, but for this? For you? It's perfectly fine to learn how to wait, as long as you allow yourself to.

[And he reaches over and flicks her on the forehead.]

So believe in yourself, even if it's just in the tiniest of ways. One day, you might just realize why we believe in you.

[strings_theory]

[Patience isn't something she tended to want to use or learn, unfortunately.]

Do I really have the time to do that? With the whole pushing the Nightfall thing and the training bit, do I have time to take for myself? [That's... actually not a terrible question, even if she hasn't been allowed anywhere near the Herald shit since she first got here. The first time due to her instability and aggressive issues and this one more due to a lack of tact...

She is squeaking as she's flicked, brow furrowing as she focuses on him once again.]

Believing in myself is hard as fuck to do, but I guess I won't know if I can if I don't try, huh?

[hatesdeerstalkers]

Of course you do - just because Nightfall may happen doesn't mean you shouldn't take time to focus on yourself. In fact, by not taking that time...it can end up injuring you in the long run.

[He nods at her question, smiling.]

Exactly. And the more you try at it, the easier it will become.